Fellas, She’s In Control — The Lexington Line

Hey ladies! Raise your hand if you have ever been embarrassed by the guy you brought with you to an outing, because girl—you know I’m raising both of my hands and feet. We sit here and ask ourselves the following: “Why did he just say that?” or, “Does he really think he is funny?” or even, “Do I need another drink…?”

Wouldn’t it be easier if you had a guide that matched a man’s traits and personality to the event you are going to? Look no further than right here! Below you will find a list of events coupled with the traits and qualities that your boo (at the moment) should have to properly accompany you.

Office Parties and Work Events

We all have those work events that you cannot say no to. When your boss asks you to attend, who are you bringing on your arm? He has to be well-spoken, have a decent personality, and above all—he needs to know how to handle his liquor. Cocktails are always present at work events, so ladies, just remember that you are no man’s babysitter, nor a clean up woman. He needs to complement your personality and match your intelligence. He needs to be social. Carrying a stimulating conversation with your coworkers and boss will go a long way to impress them. On the flip side, if he’s going on about his high-paying salary, fancy cars, and lavish trips, it will rub your coworkers the wrong way. You do not want to be known as the girl who brought a man that complained about the cheap cheese on the hors d'oeuvres platter.

Shopping trips

It’s safe to say that most men loathe long trips to the department stores with their girl. Men can get exhausted seeing you in different dresses, bored of holding piles of clothes that you most likely will not purchase, sick of hearing, “does this make me look fat?” Ladies, it takes a special man to have the stamina you need when hunting for your new Spring wardrobe. He has to care about fashion, not complain, and genuinely care about your appearance. He has to care enough that he is doesn’t fear being brutally honest. You do not need a yes-man. He should hold your items, hold your place in line, and hold your purse. Nothing is worse than having a man rush you out of a store because he was tired of watching you pick out clothes.

Family Dinner

Don’t we all have that one aunt who keeps asking when we are going to get married? Whew, chile! When you pull up to a family dinner, the man you take with you better be ready for an interrogation. He has to be employed, come from a healthy family, and make himself useful. When your mom is serving dinner—he should be getting up to help her with you. When your aunt asks him how much money is he making—he should laugh, and not get offended. When your father asks him what his plan is for his life—he should take the opportunity show his ambition and drive. The biggest rule? He must offer to help do the dishes! That signals to your family that he not only pulls his weight, but is helpful and was raised right.

Ladies, it is so important to set standards for what a man should be. Value yourself so highly, and say enough to escape all the foolishness and embarrassment. In the words of the Grammy Award winning singer Ciara: Level up!